There are also differences between time and money. Maybe one of the reasons why we tend to be less careful with our time than with our money is that time appears to come for free: every day when we wake up, there is another 16 hours awake ahead of us. Just like in a Monopoly game, all we need to do is pass Go, and we don’t even have to worry about going to jail, or having to go back a number of steps. Things that appear free feel less precious.
But of course, time is valuable, and we can benefit from allocating it better. The challenge is that, unlike its material companion money, it is fleeting: it passes, and we cannot – as the late Jim Croce used to sing – save time in a bottle and use it later. We need to use what we have right now. When it’s gone it’s gone.
There is a way in which we might improve our use of time, though. When we see a $50 dollar bill in our wallet, we would not normally look for a way to spend it as quickly as possible. But that is precisely what might help us be more efficient with our time. When we have half an hour, or even just five minutes, available – what can we spend it usefully on? Small tasks – reply to an email, check the train times, locate an old a file on our computer – can be efficiency killers if we engage in them at random, but if we slot them in small fragments of time that would otherwise just be wasted, we have done ourselves a favour.
This idea – doing someone a favour – is perhaps the way in which time is the most valuable. We can offer our time to someone else, because time, like money, can be used to trade, but it is less like a commercial transaction, and more like trading favours. When we need some help – whether at work or in our private lives – what others really give us is their time. Resolving a customer query, telling a colleague about an experience you’ve had that is relevant to what they’re working on, checking over a report, offering to cook dinner even though it’s not your turn, giving someone a lift and making a detour to drop them at their doorstep to save them walking through the pouring rain… you name it – always, the currency in which the favour is made is time.
And that sacrifice of time, the ultimate scarce resource, people make to serve someone else is a very significant behavioural signal. Giving other people our time – more than any material exchange – is not just a lubricant for social interaction, but can build up social capital and loyalty, enhance our reputation and activate reciprocity, one of the strongest determining factors of human behaviour. We are more likely to remember that someone sacrificed fifteen minutes of their time to help us, than that they took us out for lunch.
The beauty is that, every morning, everyone receives an endowment of time, some of which we can spend on others. It’s up to us to decide how, and for whom, we spend it.
This article was written by Koen Smets, an Organizational Development Consultant and an accidental Behavioural Economist and trusted Senior Advisor at the BVA Nudge Consulting.